logo-image

How to Include Your Pet in Your End-of-Life Wishes

How to Include Your Pet in Your End-of-Life Wishes

Most of us approach pet ownership with the understanding that we’ll need to provide end-of-life care for many of our animals throughout our lifetimes. Dogs and cats (not to mention reptiles, rodents and birds) have shorter lifespans than their human caretakers, and being prepared for your companion’s final days is an important aspect of loving care. But planning for the opposite scenario is part of good pet ownership, too.


After all, none of us know for certain when we might die or become incapacitated by an illness or injury. Planning to provide for our animals after we’re gone is another way to show them love and ensure they are cared for as members of the family. When it comes to estate planning, your pets should get the same consideration you would give to any other loved one!

Can I include my pet in my will?

Current state laws view animals as property, which means pets cannot be gifted anything or named as a beneficiary in a will. However, you can specify in your will that you’d like custody of your pet transferred to a specific person and include money for the animal’s care. When you die, that money and your pet go together to your chosen beneficiary.


The downside to this arrangement is that the care instructions left in the document are not legally binding. Once the funds have been disbursed, there is no guarantee that the person who receives your pet will use the money for the pet’s care or even that they keep the pet. If you trust your chosen caretaker, this may not be a problem for you. But if you’d prefer a greater amount of security, you may consider setting up a pet trust.

How does a pet trust work?

Unlike a will, which disburses its funds all at once, a trust is a fund set up for a specific purpose that pays out over time. In setting up a trust, you will have a beneficiary (the pet), a caretaker, and a trustee who manages the funds and ensures that the terms of the trust are being followed.


Although pet trusts are a very secure way to provide for your companion’s future, they aren’t right for everyone. It’s more time-consuming and expensive to set up a trust than to modify a will, and you will need to consult with a lawyer to do so. It can also be inflexible, which could cause trouble for a caretaker whose life circumstances change after receiving your pet. Finally, a pet trust can still be challenged by your other heirs. In some cases, courts have ruled in favor of these challenges, especially when the money left for a pet seems excessive.


It’s ultimately your decision whether to account for your pet in your will or go the extra step and set up a trust. The best path will depend on your pet’s needs, your personal finances, and who you have available in your life to serve as a caretaker or trustee.

Steps to follow when including your pet in your estate planning:

No matter what form of estate planning you choose, there are a few steps to follow that can ensure your pet is well cared for in the event something unexpected happens to you:


  • Have a serious talk with your loved ones about your wishes. Identify a few people who could act as temporary or long-term guardians for your companions. You will ideally want an emergency caregiver (who can take your pet short-term), a long-term caregiver, and an alternate in case something changes in the caregiver’s life circumstances. It may be a good idea to bring up the topic with a group of friends so you can all agree to be one another’s pet guardians when possible.
  • Make a card for your wallet specifying who to contact for pet care in the event of an emergency. Place a duplicate of the card in a prominent place in your home, such as the refrigerator door or wherever you store your other emergency contacts.
  • Create a detailed care sheet for your pet. Consider what someone else would need to know when assuming ownership. What vet do you use? What grooming service? What type of food does the pet eat? Any medications or allergies? This care sheet will come in handy any time you need a pet-sitter, too, so having these details written down can save you a lot of trouble.
  • Determine how much money your pet’s care costs per year. Take into account the cost of food, grooming, vet visits, and any minor expenses. Calculate how long your pet might live. This will give you a good idea of how much money to set aside in the will or trust to cover for your pet’s care.


Once you’ve handled these details, you can discuss your wishes with your attorney and make the necessary arrangements. Just bear in mind that you may need to adjust your documentation throughout your life as pets come and go or caregiver circumstances change.

What happens if I don’t have anyone who can care for my pet after I’m gone?

Not everyone has friends or family available to provide long-term care for a pet. Fortunately, there are alternatives to ensure a pet is placed with a loving home after the owner’s death. These “pet retirement homes” or sanctuaries provide lifetime care to animals in exchange for a monetary donation. Many are run through university veterinary schools, while others are non-profit rescue groups.


You can ask your veterinarian for recommendations or call your local animal shelter to be placed in contact with a rescue group who can help you to make these end-of-life arrangements to ensure your pet will be cared for.


Planning for your own end-of-life arrangements can be complicated, but planning for your pet’s doesn’t have to be. Best Friends Pet Passings & Cremations in Albuquerque, New Mexico provides pet cremations, memorial services, and grief resources to help you say goodbye to your furry family members as peacefully as possible. Reach out to us to learn more at (803) 888-7095.

By Tukios Websites September 7, 2023
Losing a cherished companion is already emotionally devastating. Surprise expenses only add to your worries. That’s why Best Friends believes in the importance of transparency during this difficult time. We can’t make the pain of loss go away, but we can do everything in our power to make it easier to bear – and part of that means upfront pricing and simple-to-understand cremation packages.
By Tukios Websites September 7, 2023
When someone you love passes away, having a permanent place to return to can help ease the feelings of grief and loss. This is as true of our pets as our human family members. A gravesite can be decorated as a beautiful physical memorial of their precious memory.
By Tukios Websites September 7, 2023
Heartache isn’t just a poetic turn of phrase. The emotions of grief can be felt in your body: the tightness in your chest, the throb in your head, the heaviness in your limbs. Losing a beloved animal companion can be a mental, emotional, and physical ordeal, just the same as losing any other family member. Pet owners often face pressure to hide or downplay their grief when a pet dies. After all, it was just a pet, right? The fact is that pets are so much more than that. They are constant companions, a source of unconditional love, and a comforting presence.
By Tukios Websites September 7, 2023
The decision of what to do with a beloved pet’s body is a deeply personal one. It’s also not always easy to make in the moment. When you’re faced with a loss that happens at home, or your vet asks about your preference at the clinic, your mind might go blank. Should you cremate your pet? Should you bury them? If you cremate them, do you want the ashes back? Will you scatter those ashes, bury them, keep them on the mantel or do something else with them? These decisions can leave you feeling blind-sided, and you might not know the best way to proceed.
By Tukios Websites September 7, 2023
It can be nerve-wracking when your fur-baby is seriously ill or feeling the effects of old age. Because they cannot speak to us directly, it’s hard to know for certain how our animal companions are feeling or what’s going through their minds. That uncertainty can lead you to asking yourself a lot of difficult questions.
By Tukios Websites September 7, 2023
When you’re looking to grow your family, a new puppy or kitten is often the first thing that comes to mind. But adopting a senior pet can be very rewarding. Whether you’re looking to add a second companion or are opening your heart to another pet after a loss, consider inviting a senior pet to live out their golden years in your home.
By Tukios Websites September 7, 2023
Part of being a pet parent is knowing you will say goodbye too soon. No lifetime ever feels long enough when it comes to a beloved animal companion. Seeing your fur baby grow old and slow down can be painful. Watching them advance through the stages of a terminal disease, knowing you will have to make a choice sooner or later about when to let them go, can be one of the most agonizing parts of pet parenting.
By Tukios Websites September 7, 2023
Pets are family. And when they pass away, we memorialize them for the same reason we do our human family members. Whether their ashes are kept on the mantle, scattered in the garden, or buried in a pet cemetery, laying your pet’s remains to rest is a tribute to them and the lasting bond you share. A permanent memorial or resting place gives you something to visit after they’re gone, and it’s a visible expression of the love and care you feel for them.
By Tukios Websites September 7, 2023
The bonds we make with those we love don’t go away when they die. This is just as true of our pets as any other loved one. Their spirit may be gone, but we feel just as strongly connected to them as when they were by our side.
By Tukios Websites September 7, 2023
“It’s just a pet.” There are few things crueler to say to someone grieving the loss of a furry family member. Yet people are often quick to dismiss the pain associated with pet death. Sometimes when we are coping with the loss, we can even internalize that dismissiveness and feel self-conscious or ashamed of our feelings. This only compounds the pain, adding more negative emotions to an already difficult time. Pets serve a vital role in our lives. They are precious to us. Pets are part of the family. In some ways, they can be even closer to us than many of the people in our lives. It’s only natural that their loss would affect us deeply.
By Tukios Websites September 7, 2023
If you’ve spent much time around pet parents online, you may already be familiar with the idea of the Rainbow Bridge. Perhaps you’ve seen someone say, “Muffin crossed the bridge today,” or seen someone express sympathy as, “Play hard at the bridge, Buddy.” Or you might have seen a motif of rainbows and bridges on cards and memorial items and wondered about it. What is the Rainbow Bridge, and what does it have to do with pet loss?
By Tukios Websites September 7, 2023
The tragedy of pet ownership is knowing that your furry friend’s lifespan will never be long enough. Though their lives are short, our pets pack a tremendous amount of love and wonderful memories into the time we share. And when they approach the end of their lives, we as pet parents can return that love with a beautiful final gift.
More Posts
Share by: